Ladies, have you ever just sat back and in your own self reflection took stock of all the wonderful blessings and gifts given to you? I mean, consider all the trials and setbacks you've overcome only to arrive at a calm. I believe that we are preordained to be who we are before we are even conceived and that God always knows exactly what He is doing and is always in control.
I used to worry so much about everyone else and what they had until one day, my father said to me, "Everyone has a cross to bear. Don't worry yourself so much with what everyone else has because you don't know what they are experiencing, sacrificing or dealing with to have the things you want so badly."
He was right, as always. I constantly asked God what was it I was missing or needed to do differently to finally be loved the way I love? I prayed for that man to come into my life and love me unconditionally and eternally and each time I was presented with A man, he never turned out to be, THE man. So finally, I said, "Ok. This is not up to me." And left it at that. It seemed literally the moment I released it, God sent to me the most kind, giving, caring, supportive, loving and strong man he could ever assemble in His time, for me.
In my life, it's not only about the presence of one man. I have three that I thank God for. One gave me life, one guides my life and one walks through life with me. It's something about the pure essence of a man that brings out the best in a woman and all three of them have contributed to bringing out the very best in me.
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